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Send the Message

I always see this post on word porn that says:
"I'll always encourage the reckless texts confessing your feelings. The kind where you throw your phone after hitting send. I'll always encourage the horribly straightforward conversations at 3am when conversations get deep and you can't always put how you feel into words. I'll always encourage you to say the things that make your heart beat fast and your legs shake. Because I know how alive you feel when you feel something for someone else"
When prompted these thoughts:
ThisπŸ‘† is actually one of my all time favourite things to do
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Someone very special to me taught me the importance of this, and I will be forever grateful.
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To feel something is a sign of life, not frailty...
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If we catch up, and you get onto a story about another person you like(d) and say how you wished you had did this or that. Or how nothing eventuated from this person that you clearly still like and/or you are still talking or thinking about them after a month, 6 months, a year even. I'm going to get you to do this ☝
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I like bringing up the hard and confronting stuff. Dont get me wrong, I'm all for the rainbow and glitter stuff. But it's the shadow shit, the shit that has happened to you that has made you the person you are today. The tuff stuff that when talking about it, heals you, that is what I like hearing
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Life is too short, we all know this. Suck up your pride. Do you really want to wait until it's to late and spend time wishing you had made contact, wishing you had asked to catch up, where from there, the opportunites are endless, potential closure, even if it is for a coffee and then you end up good friends
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Send the message
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So what if you don't get the reply you think you want. You ask to meet up or admit your feelings, they either don't reply, they say no, or that they cannot reciprocate the feels. You know what happens then, you've lowered your walls that little bit more for the future and you start a healing process. You can then say, you tried everything you could. You can then stop thinking about the 'what ifs' and move on
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If this resonates with you, and someone pops into your head. Contact them, see what happens. Or don't, and see what doesn't happen
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You're welcome πŸ¦„πŸ”₯πŸ’«πŸ‘πŸŽ†